(Minghui.org) I have been participating for some time, in a project to clarify the truth to the Chinese people and help them quit the Chinese Communist Party (CCP). Through this experience, I have realized that when sharing information about Dafa—whether over the phone or face-to-face— the timing of our words, the expressions we choose, and even our tone and demeanor, can all lead to very different outcomes.
This experience has led me to question whether any solutions can truly adapt to constantly changing situations. Our recent project team meeting brought this issue to the forefront in my mind.
How should we start a conversation when making a phone call or meeting someone on the street? The first words we use are very important. If we repeat the same phrases too often, their effectiveness may weaken over time.
In my experience it’s good to begin with a brief introduction, stating the reason for the call, such as sending greetings, etc. Then mention a recent event or news as an entry point to the conversation. If you use a prepared script, be sure you are familiar with its content.
An effective opening approach should make sure the other person feels that we care about them and have their best interests in mind. This helps create a welcoming positive tone for the conversation.
When it comes to helping others, I think practitioners all feel the same way. After all, if we weren’t motivated by concern for others, why would we spend time and money making phone calls? The real challenge, however, is ensuring that the other person genuinely feels our intentions, rather than us simply feeling virtuous ourselves.
On the other hand, if I expand my capacity to be as vast as the ocean, no matter how others respond to me, they won’t be able to change me or affect me even a bit. I will remain unmoved in the face of their emotions or negative reactions, without feeling defeated. By staying unmoved, I can help others calm down, allowing them to sense my sincerity and kindness.
Our mindset is very important when making phone calls. When we encourage people to quit the CCP we may worry whether people will reject it, feel afraid, or think we’re against the government.
I completely understand these concerns. If we thoroughly prepare our script, and also fully considered possible reactions, we’ll feel much more confident.
While listening to a fellow practitioner make a phone call, I realized that if we are more relaxed during the call—as if speaking to a friend—we can convey genuine care, even if we don’t know the person well. This allows them to sense hope and warmth.
Every phone call we make is a precious opportunity for someone to learn the truth, and we don’t know if this person will have another chance to hear about Dafa again. If we speak with worry, anxiety, or impatience, or if our own mindset lacks compassion, those negative elements will affect them.
When clarifying the facts, Dafa practitioners take the leading role. But what does it truly mean to lead? In my view, effective leadership isn’t about dominating the conversation or talking non-stop; true leadership goes beyond simply talking more than others.
A fellow practitioner shared her experience of truly listening to others during phone calls, and her experience deeply touched me. Her patience, respect, appreciation, and understanding helped the person let down their guard and eventually agree to quit the CCP. While listening attentively, she also took opportunities to introduce Dafa and encourage the person to quit the CCP.
My understanding is that a fellow practitioner’s ability to listen is like opening a floodgate, allowing the other person’s emotions to find an outlet, rather than building a dam with our own words, which could block them.
Conversations between friends also requires this kind of listening, respect, and understanding. Similarly, when making phone calls we should approach them as friendly, casual conversations. Even if the other person doesn’t quit the Party right away, at the very least we will leave them with a good impression. The next time they hear about quitting the CCP from another practitioner, they’ll be more willing to engage with them.
When people are unwilling to quit the Party, it presents us with an opportunity to cultivate. It may be that our mindset isn’t calm or sincere enough, or perhaps our personal cultivation hasn’t reached the necessary level. The script we prepare is a reflection of our own level, and therefore so does the energy it conveys.
In fact, every practitioner who makes a phone call is not acting alone; we are united as one body. If any part is missing it could undermine the overall effect and make our efforts less productive. At the same time, the ultimate outcome of what we do is in Master’s hands. Any setbacks, troubles, or obstacles we encounter are actually opportunities provided by Master to help us see our own shortcomings and quickly improve. In reality, these challenges are opportunities for us to cultivate.
I would like to take this opportunity to express my gratitude to Master. Thank you, Master, for giving me the chance to participate in the project. I am also grateful to fellow practitioners for their patience, support, and encouragement. I would especially like to thank those who are on the front line making phone calls. Your dedication has deeply moved and inspired me. I believe that whether or not Chinese people choose to quit the CCP, they will one day appreciate your selfless efforts.